Love after death does exists. When people die, they tend to leave behind many strong relationships and bonds. When a loved one dies, their loss is surely felt and grieved. The love feeling which we have felt for the departed loved one does not become less or reduce. We strongly feel their absence and miss them even more.
It is difficult to bear with the loss of the loved ones, as memories of past keep resurfacing again and again. The lines below truly express the grievous feelings...
Those bygone days,
Bring tears to my eyes,
Make my lips quiver
With grievous utterances
Happy days of togetherness, bitter sweet moments of fighting and patching up, birthday celebrations, anniversary celebrations....are now much more vivid memories. With nobody to give those loving hugs, caresses and whisper love endearments in our ears, we surely miss our departed ones even more.
Love after death makes us miss our loved ones even more .... as we keep thinking of them all the time. Just glancing around ourselves and our house, we come across many of their thing such as clothes, books, innumerable photographs, their rooms, special personalized mugs or dishes which make us remind them more than ever.
Love after death leaves us very sensitive and emotional, but we have to overcome our grief and move ahead in life. This is what even our loved ones would have expected us to do. We have to share our grief and sorrow with our families, friends and follow rituals as per our religious faiths. This will help us to minimize our grief and loneliness. Having other family members and friends give us strength and courage to stand up and face the world. By expressing our grief and venting out our sorrows we will feel relived and less depressed. It is inherent for us, human beings to lose, leave and let go....
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