Love in School is more of an experiment than an actual feeling that will last. In teens, relationships for guys is about physical attraction and later on they look out for inner qualities. Teen girls mostly emphasize on understanding and friendship as most important to a strong relationship. They may also like some boy who happens to have chocolate looks.
High School and days of graduation ... proms and special farewells to the outgoing batches of senior students. On such social events, students tend to form pairs and go out with each other. Love in school is about having fun. Dating can be a great way to have a good time and to go to places and do fun-filled activities. Dating and chatting is a way of having fun, to do interesting activities together.
Dating is also a part of peer pressure. Teenagers want to fit in so if their friends are dating, they too plunge into it without thinking twice.
As teenagers, school students have shorter relationships because adolescents are naturally more instinctive and more dynamic. Commitment and emotional security is not what they are looking for.
They want to be free spirits and love and relationship is what they try out based on movies that they watch. Hence very few love relationship developed at school culminate into committed love relationships
Dating is sometimes a status symbol. It can seem to be a version of cliques. The idea of going out with the right person in the right group can spoil the fun of dating. When in love in school, the main objective of the lovebirds and their group is to freak out, go out for movies, dating, discotheques and partying etc.....
Though love in school just happens, it is advisable to think and analyze one's goals and ambitions in life before committing oneself into a love relationship. A difficult proposition, no doubt making thinking twice is less painful, then a breakup and an emotional trauma thereafter. Falling in love means a lot more than physical attraction and involves much more than sacrifice, understanding and patience.
Love in School can happen and can mature as well.... giving emotional security and sense of belongingness. Accept love as it comes and flow with the time, provided one thinks rationally at all times. Happy Loving....
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